santa barbara sheriff’s dept.
ONE OF MANY? Al Stein was a volunteer leader for the Boy Scouts when he sexually abused a young Scout. The boy has filed a lawsuit calling for the Boy Scouts of America to unveil all the information they have about the hundreds of suspected child abusers who have worked or volunteered for the organization.
The Scout Molestation Meritless Badge
Brave Former Scout Deserves Praise
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
HUSH-HUSH: There’s the Penn State football hidden-ball molestation play, the Catholic Church Hail Mary molestation pass, and, in Santa Barbara, the Boy Scout molestation meritless badge.
A Santa Barbara family is seeking punitive damages against the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) because their 13-year-old son was molested by a Scout volunteer and because a top area Scout executive allegedly tried to prevent the boy’s mother from reporting the abuse to authorities.
Barney Brantingham
After the 13-year-old told his mother that he was abused by 400-pound Scout volunteer Al Steven Stein in late 2007, she was “shocked and angry.” But when she told area Scout executive David Tate about it, he urged her not to report it, according to a civil suit pending in Superior Court. “It is not necessary,” Tate said, according to the mother.
Her response: “I said this is a sex crime, and I want the police to investigate.”
The Scouts will investigate, Tate told her, according to the suit. “I thought it was really strange that he didn’t want me to call the police,” the mother told me. “I insisted, and he said, ‘Well, go ahead.’” She didn’t pull a Joe Paterno, the Penn State football coach, and assume she’d done enough just by telling Tate.
That left the burden on the family, which has suffered for it. “The real hero is my son, who was very brave to come forward but has been treated like an outcast by the Scouts,” the mother told me. “We’ll never know,” she added, how many other youngsters were saved from abuse by his courage. “He wants to see that other boys aren’t molested.”
Tim Hale, the family’s attorney, described Stein to me as “a ticking time bomb.” Stein eventually pleaded no contest, violated probation, and served a prison term. He is now a registered sex offender and is said to be homeless but has an attorney.
The area’s Scouting community, instead of congratulating the boy for coming forward to expose a molester, turned its back on him, said his mother. With no support from area Scouting and with Stein, now 33, back on the street, she said her son is traumatized, in fear, and extremely reluctant to leave the house.
After Tate was unable to convince the mother not to report the case, he warned Stein, who then confronted the boy, adding to the trauma, the lawsuit contends. Stein also began a pattern of “stalking” the boy, the mother said.
After the mother insisted on reporting to sheriff’s deputies, she said Scout Troop 36 in Goleta shunned the family. One top BSA leader in the area “really let me have it and told me that my son was a liar and he hallucinated.” Even after charges were filed against Stein for molesting her son and an 8-year-old non-Scout, she said, “I think they wanted him back in.” She said people she met told her that “the parents wanted him back in, whether convicted or acquitted.”
Soon after she first notified authorities, someone made a false report to county Child Welfare Services officials, she said: An investigator appeared at her door with allegations that the family was allowing the boy to be in the company of a sex offender and that he might have to be placed in foster care. When she told the investigator that the family had immediately reported the case to authorities, the case was dropped, the mother told me. She considers the false report an attempt to intimidate and silence her. Oddly, even after Stein’s conviction and prison term, “I’ve never had a parent” show any support for the family, she said.
Long before the molestation, there were numerous red flags about Stein’s bizarre behavior. In 2002, the hulking man was bouncing a Scout leader’s young son off his stomach and was told to stop. A year later, he had the 12-year-old daughter of another troop leader on his lap, to which her mother objected, according to the suit. In 2005, Stein was pulling down the pants of scouts and, in 2006, began making sexual comments to scouts and was told by leaders to stop.
The civil trial is scheduled for April 11, 2012. The family’s attorneys, Hale and David Nye, are seeking the BSA’s so-called secret “perversion files” involving thousands of cases of alleged molestation.
“Many of the claims in this case have previously been dismissed,” said Tom Delaney, an attorney representing the BSA. “We disagree with these claims and believe our witnesses will support it.”
Tate has since been promoted to the position of chief financial officer for a Scout group in New York.
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I thought when the Boy Scouts started kicking out The Gays more than 10 years ago, this all would stop.
Were they wrong? How could that be?!?
John_Adams (anonymous profile)
November 23, 2011 at 11:22 a.m. (Suggest removal)
I can only hope your comment was facetious, since it sure seems like it must be.
Sadly, there are so many people who - completely ignorantly and erroneously - believe gay men molest boys in the Scouts. When statistically speaking, it's self-described "straight" family men who usually are the perpetrators of sexual crime against children.
Gay men and women are such a convenient scapegoat for sexual predators, it's not even funny.
Native1 (anonymous profile)
November 23, 2011 at 4:28 p.m. (Suggest removal)
It seems to be that BSA would rather have child molesters than gay men. Ten years ago the mantra was "openly gay men are not morally straight." Well, child molesters are definitely NOT morally straight. At least most gay men have morals and don't harm kids.
Unlike the Penn State situation where people got fired, the BSA promoted that guy who tried to silence the family. Was the promotion a reward or a pay off to keep him silent?
Woody123 (anonymous profile)
November 23, 2011 at 7:10 p.m. (Suggest removal)
This behavior by the Boy Scout leadership doesn't surprise me. Seems like groups that set themselves up as bastions of morality are often where sex abusers of one type or another hide out--protective coloration. I'd be willing to bet that anyone who as a youngster was involved in church youth groups or community groups for kids has run into occasional counselors or coaches who made some kind of sexual overture to them--it happened to me several times as a pre-teen and young teenager. I never told anyone (out of shame), just avoided the person or quit the group.
With groups like the Boy Scouts or the Catholic Church the leaders are so focused on protecting the organization's reputation rather than the children they should be caring for that they lie and rationalize when they find out. Pretty sickening. Seems like the more moralistic the organization, the more likely they are to cover up abuse. I have no evidence for that, just my own perception.
mtndriver (anonymous profile)
November 25, 2011 at 9:18 a.m. (Suggest removal)
Most promotions are a reward for loyalty and commitment to the organization. I'm sure Tate was promoted for being such a good Scout, which apparently means attempting to protect child molesters.
Actually no one got fired for years at Penn State, and then only because a grand jury got involved. The incident that was witnessed and reported to Paterno occurred in 2002. Instead everyone got patted, promoted and protected for years.
Nitz (anonymous profile)
November 25, 2011 at 10:14 a.m. (Suggest removal)
mtndriver is exactly right. He said, "Seems like groups that set themselves up as bastions of morality are often where sex abusers of one type or another hide out--protective coloration." Our Human Sexuality text book states that sex offenders are typically heterosexual males who have very traditional views of gender roles, tend to be shy, lonely, conservative and often moralistic or religious. They frequently have difficulty relating to other adults and tend to feel inadequate and inferior.
I understand that the Indy is protecting this courageous teen by not disclosing his identity, but I wish your readers could send him hugs and praise for reporting what Stein did to him and probably others. The brave teen is definitely preventing Stein from abusing others. Good for him! He is a hero and he should know that many in the community are grateful to him and admire his strength and character. Sometimes a victim feels like damaged goods and that he will never be worthy. I hope he will get some good counseling to recover from those feelings. I say to him, "You are just as good and worthy as any of us and deserve our respect and admiration for reporting the abuser. That takes guts and is the honorable thing to do." Maybe Barney can set up a place where people can send supportive notes to this family. We can help both mother and son heal from this painful experience by letting them know of our support. I wish I could phone them.
Shira (anonymous profile)
November 25, 2011 at 11:43 a.m. (Suggest removal)